Reflexiones De Reina De Los Angeles
Monday, 24 October 2011
REFLEXIONES MATUTINAS POR REINA DE LOS ANGELES 24/10/11
Y amarás a Jehová tu Dios, de todo tu corazón, y de toda tu alma, y con todas tus fuerzas.
Deuteronomio 6:5.
El problema, para entender correctamente este versículo, es el hecho de que vivimos en días en que prácticamente se ha vulgarizado la palabra amor; tal vez, por lo limitado de los idiomas latinos. En estos idiomas, se "ama" a todo: la comida, al perrito, a la esposa, a Dios, a la iglesia, la profesión, en fin... No existen varias palabras para definir o diferenciar el amor por una u otra cosa. Pero, en el griego y el hebreo, no sucede lo mismo.
En este versículo, por ejemplo, en el original hebreo la palabra "amor" es ahab, que refiere a un amor consciente, con propósito; un amor racional. No es solo un amor sentimental, sino un amor responsable; un amor que tiene que ser así, no puede ser de otra forma. Es un amor que existe porque la mente dice que eso es lo correcto, aunque para eso sea necesario la renuncia, la entrega y el sacrificio.
Este tipo de amor no es fácil de ser entendido. Desdichadamente, el amor, como principio, se ha transformado apenas en amor romántico, de poesía y de música, desprovisto de acciones y hasta de lógica.
Dios espera de su pueblo un amor completo: con la mente, con el cuerpo, con el ser entero; no un amor dividido ni a medias. Cuando el ser humano trata de amar a medias, se divide a sí mismo, y eso lo vuelve infeliz. Para que algo te satisfaga, tienes que hacerlo con tu ser entero; de otro modo, corres el riesgo de hacerte infeliz, incompleto y vacío.
Pero, la voluntad de Dios es más grande, todavía: él espera que un amor así lleve al ser humano a amar, también, a su prójimo, es decir, a las otras personas, del mismo modo que ama a Dios.
Solo porque es una orden? No: los consejos divinos tienen, como pro pósito, hacerte feliz. Es de lamentar que, para entender algo tan simple, mu chas veces sea necesario sufrir y llegar a la desesperación. Pero, finalmente, es por medio del dolor que llegamos a nacer del Espíritu; y solo entonces el amor auténtico, verdadero y genuino se manifiesta, en la vida, como un fruto.
Con esto en mente, comienza el día recordando: "Amarás a Jehová tu Dios de todo tu corazón, y de toda tu alma, y con todas tus fuerzas"
Sunday, 23 October 2011
Peruvian Cuisine, muy rico..report by Independent UK
Forget hummus. Try the caju and
ceviche
Sunday, 16 October 2011
Wednesday, 12 October 2011
REFLEXIONES MATUTINAS POR REINA DE LOS ANGELES 10/10/11
Y muchos de los sacerdotes, de los levitas y de los jefes de casas paternas, ancianos que habían visto la casa primera, viendo echar los cimientos de esta casa, lloraban en alta voz, mientras muchos otros daban grandes gritos de alegría. Esdras 3:12.El Templo de Jerusalén era el orgullo del pueblo de Israel. Y por eso, al volver del exilio babilónico, la primera actividad fue reconstruirlo: todo el material sería recaudado, y el primer paso sería revisar los fundamentos.
Era día de fiesta para el pueblo: el mayor símbolo de su fe estaba siendo, finalmente, reconstruido. El cuerpo sacerdotal estaba en su puesto; cantores e instrumentistas, listos para la adoración a Dios; gritos de alegría y de rego cijo se oían a lo lejos. También el lloro. ¿Lloro?
REFLEXIONES MATUTINAS POR REINA DE LOS ANGELES 12/10/11
¿Andarán dos juntos, si no estuvieren de acuerdo? Amos 3:3.
“Pastor", me preguntaba un adolescente, "¿cómo puedo saber si estoy haciendo la voluntad de Dios?" Esa es la pregunta que todos. El razonamiento es simple: si hago la voluntad de Dios, seré bendecido; pero, ¿cómo puedo conocer la voluntad de Dios?
Pero en un viaje no habla solo uno. Con Dios es lo mismo. Ahora que terminaste de hablar es hora de escuchar lo que él tiene para decirte, cuáles son sus planes, los caminos que tiene para ti, por dónde quiete conducirte, los cuidados que debes tomar.
Algunas personas esperan que Dios les revele algo nuevo y diferente de lo que está escrito en la Biblia. Generalmente esa es una disculpa para hacer lo que ya vieron que Dios no aprueba.
¿Quieres ser feliz? ¿Quieres vivir un día de bendiciones?, el secreto es simple. Ve al encuentro de tu Dios, porque "¿andarán dos juntos, s¡ no estu vieren de acuerdo?"
Monday, 10 October 2011
life most important app..
Appreciating more with less.
by Sara Yoheved RiglerThe text messages of a dying man reveal a lot about who he was. Larry Melzer, 37, was losing his 17-month battle with leukemia. Lying in a bed in an Israeli hospital, suffering from viral pneumonia after a bone marrow transplant, Larry was on a respirator. His four little daughters were at home in Jerusalem. Larry’s devoted wife Jen was at his bedside. Shabbat was approaching. Larry could not eat, drink, nor speak, but his fingers kept maneuvering his iPhone.
Shortly before Shabbat, Larry received a text message from a friend who was also battling cancer, commiserating how dreary it was to spend Shabbat in the hospital. After Shabbat the same friend wrote:
Thinking of u. Hope Shabbos was bearable!
Larry texted back:
It was great, jen was here, don’t worry it will be great
Great? He was hooked up to 15 separate antibiotic infusions, his once-athletic six-foot frame was shriveled, his handsome face aged and wizened. He had endured a Shabbat without reciting Kiddush, eating challah, singing songs, enjoying food, or embracing his beloved children. The only bright spot was that his faithful wife Jen was there. Yet Larry considered that Shabbat, “great.”
In great pain due to sores from radiation, while receiving an emergency blood transfusion, Larry said with a smile, "I’m so happy.”
A few months prior, Larry had been rushed from Jerusalem to a hospital in Haifa. As his friend Daniel Irom relates: “After a long drive, after he hadn’t slept in a few days due to being on large doses of steroids, while in great pain due to mouth and throat sores from radiation, while receiving an emergency blood transfusion, Larry turned to me with a smile that seemed to come from Heaven and said, ‘I’m so happy.’”
What was he happy about?
Larry and Jen, at the peak of their successful Yahoo careers, had a fabulous Manhattan apartment, an SUV, many DINK [Double Income No Kids] friends, and two dogs. Then they started to become interested in their Jewish heritage. In 2004, they went to Jerusalem for a six-month sabbatical to study Judaism.
There Larry fell in love with Judaism. With his personal charisma and passionate personality, he reached out to share his enthusiasm with everyone he met. While continuing to enjoy the pleasures of the physical world, he infused them with a spiritual awareness and appreciation. “More than once,” relates Gabi Leventhal, “I would be enjoying a wine, a whiskey, a delicious meal with Larry, and before we began to fulfill our appetites, Larry would redirect everyone and talk about all the kindnesses that God has done for him and for everyone else present." He transformed the enjoyment of eating to a sublime state of gratitude.
Eric Rayburn, a former single from Manhattan, recounts a conversation he had with Larry during the period of his struggling to adjust to the Spartan standard of Jerusalem while learning at Aish HaTorah. Larry said to him: “Jerusalem! This is the Wall Street of Judaism. Do you know how many people would love to trade places with you?”
“But, Larry,” Eric protested, “I live in a room without a window and it’s smaller than the second bathroom where I used to live!”
"The key is appreciating what you have. Every second is a precious million- dollar gift."
Larry, in a corporate business manager tone, replied: “I understand, and you are so lucky that the Almighty has invested His time in you to teach you how to appreciate more with less.”
“To appreciate more with less” became Larry’s approach to life. A month before he died, he posted this blog on his website:
Fighting Leukemia for me is about becoming unspoiled. I feel like I went from being a spoiled baby to a mature adult during this 16 month process. I have a zest for life I never had before!
This zest for life is indescribable. How can I possibly communicate being able to see the hand of God in everything? I live in a world where everything is perfect.
The key is appreciating what you have…. Every second is a precious million dollar gift.
Sukkot and Happiness
Sukkot is the holiday of “back to basics.” For seven days (eight in the Diaspora), we move out of our comfortable home into a flimsy sukkah. We leave behind the central heating, the furniture, the posturepedic mattress, the recessed lighting, the carpets, the hardwood flooring, the DVD player, the flat-screen TV, and—how spoiled can you get?—the rain-impervious roof. Yet this is the holiday when we have a mitzvah to be especially happy! What exactly are we supposed to be happy about?
In the snuggest juxtaposition in the Jewish calendar, Sukkot comes a mere five days after Yom Kippur. On Yom Kippur, the day when every person’s destiny for the year is sealed, we pray and plead for life. Yes, we also pray for good health, livelihood, marriage, children, a new job, and whatever else we relish, but most of all we pray for life.
Then here we are, five days later, in our cramped, no-frills sukkah. We don’t have our creature comforts or our hi-tech pleasures, but we do have—life. We have no guarantee that we’ll be alive a few months—or even a few days—from now. But right now, sitting on a folding chair in the sukkah, we have life, the fulfillment of our cherished desire. Of course we should rejoice in it.
We also have relationships. No one builds a one-person sukkah. We sit in the sukkah with family — parents/siblings/spouse/
There’s one more ingredient to the joy of Sukkot. On Yom Kippur we are cleansed of all the tainting culpability that has tinged us throughout the year. We emerge from Yom Kippur pure and perfectly prepared for the closeness to God that the sukkah affords.
A simple formula: appreciate life, relationships, and closeness to God. That’s a lot to be happy about.
Larry's Final Words
For both Larry and Jen, the fact that he was dying was no excuse to stop living. At one point, after ten rounds of chemo, Larry was in remission. It seemed like he would make it, after all. Then his doctor in Haifa told Larry that she was 95% sure that he was no longer in remission. Larry phoned Jen to break the news. “Jenny, the doctor said I relapsed.”
Jen, devastated but always encouraging, replied: “It’s going to be okay.”
Sobbing, Larry continued: “The doctor wants to talk to you about when I’m going to restart chemo. She says I have to restart chemo tomorrow.” Larry paused, collected himself, and said cheerily, “But tonight let’s have a date night. Let’s go out to dinner.”
“That’s a good idea,” she enthused. “We need to have fun, not worry about it.”
He left me with a big sack of faith. That’s how a young widow with four children can face the world with a genuine smile.
“Larry had unbounded faith,” Jen recalls. “On the day he got the original diagnosis, when they told him he had a matter of days to live, Larry said to me, ‘All news is good news.’ He meant that everything is from God and therefore everything is for the good. That’s what he left me with, a big sack of faith. And that’s how, as a young widow with four children, I can face the world with a genuine smile.”
At the end, losing the battle against viral pneumonia, Larry's doctors decided to induce a coma. At that point, Jen had been with her husband for five days, around the clock. Larry clasped her hand, looked into her eyes, and with gasping breath, said, “Thank you.”
“It was clear to me, “ Jen recalls, “that Larry was thanking me for everything I had done for him during the last 17 months, for getting his medications and making sure he took them, for feeding him, being his personal nurse, taking care of the kids single-handedly, paying bills, food shopping, and keeping the family afloat. He knew he was coming to his end, so he left nothing unsaid. He thanked me. It meant: I love you; you did everything right.”
Larry knew only one way to say good-bye: Thank you.
This Sukkot, let’s acquire life's most important app — appreciation.
Jen Melzer, Larry’s widow, is available to speak to groups of women on, “My Life after Death—with Happiness.” To book her, please contact: jenmelzer@gmail.com
Sara Yoheved Rigler’s November North American tour will take her to Canada, the Midwest, and the Tri-State area. To invite her to give her Marriage Workshop or Gratitude Workshop in your community, please write to slewsi@aol.com.
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You can contact the artist by sending an email to his wife Tatiana Sayers, a friend from La Agrarian University in Lima Peru
You can contact the artist by sending an email to his wife Tatiana Sayers, a friend from La Agrarian University in Lima Peru